If there’s an attractive woman you’re interested in, and you’re unsure of how best to proceed, remember this:
Never treat a woman as if she’s some goddess deserving of worship, treat her like your bratty kid sister.
If you worship a girl who is used to getting worshiped by thirsty guys, you’re not going to stand out from the pack, and you’ll never get to where you want to go. Stand out by not giving a fuck, or at least appearing not to. How can you do this?
- Don’t agree with everything she says
- Tease her
If she says something stupid or makes an unfunny joke, playfully call her out on it and/or don’t laugh. Also, you mustn’t be afraid to escalate things with her both verbally and physically. If you’re too afraid to “make a move” she’ll know her value exceeds yours and you’ll be left dead in the water.
As Curtis Armstrong’s character in “Risky Business” once said:
“Every now and then, say ‘what the fuck.’ ‘What the fuck’ gives you freedom. Freedom brings opportunity, opportunity makes your future. Say ‘what the fuck’…If you can’t say it, you can’t do it.”